Tolulope and Joshua Mike Bamiloye welcomed their son Jason Mike Bamiloye on the 22nd of December 2021. The good news has been shared by Joshua Mike Bamiloye online. See the photos of the baby below;
Funke Okunrinboye, a chemical engineer and biochemist, said she has dreamed of marrying her Urhobo husband since they were in secondary school, and she recalls telling her friends in secondary school that she had a dream in which she was dressed as a Delta bride.
She claimed that they met in JSS2 in 2004 and became friends. They tied the knot in October 2021, 17 years after they first met.
As she told their love journey, she went on to reveal images they both shot in 2009 when graduating from secondary school, as well as recent photos taken at their traditional wedding.
Tega Husband Reacts, Tega and Boma Video Last Night Duvet
Tega, a Big Brother Naija housemate, has been widely chastised on social media by Nigerians when a video of her kissing Boma under the duvet surfaced.
Tega and Boma are seen kissing and making out under the duvet in a video that has gone viral.
This sparked outrage on social media, with viewers criticizing Tega for disrespecting her house as a married woman and having affairs with another guy.
While some condemned Boma for exploiting a married woman, others chastised Tega for doing so on national television.
The viral video simply showed them kissing and making some provocative moves under the covers, so it’s unclear if they had intercourse.
Ajmoney, the husband of Tega, a Big Brother Naija participant, has admitted to cheating on his wife.
Tega’s spouse revealed the news in a Tuesday post on his official Instagram page.
He was responding to her assertion that if her marriage dissolves after the show, she will move on with her life.
She informed Boma and Liquorose that she isn’t afraid to move on because she will be the one with everything, including money and fame.
Tega’s husband admitted that he cheated on her in their marital house, and that the mistake had cost them a lot of money.
He said,
“First of all, I Love My Wife so much. However, I will like to state that our marriage is not perfect just like many other marriages out there. We are two imperfect people. The past 24 hours have been hell for us as a family.
“I have wronged my wife in so many ways but cheating on her was what broke the bond we had as a couple. Before you judge me, please note that I’m not perfect. I’m not the best husband as you all think I am. – I cheated on my wife in our matrimonial home. – I am not proud of this.
“This mistake has caused so much damage in our marriage to the extent of her threatening to leave our once happy home. In my own little way, I have tried to make amends for everything I have done wrong. I have tried to support her dreams, to campaign and defend her and also to be a better man. But all these are done in her absence. She doesn’t deserve me. She deserves her happiness and peace of mind. And if she is doing or saying anything to spite me, it’s because I deserve it. I am sorry babe for not being the man you wanted me to be for you. I am sorry for everything,” he wrote.
“ I am just a man that erred and hoped to be forgiven. I love my wife and will give her all the support she needs. Even if she doesn’t forgive me, I want the best for her because she has been nothing but the best woman in my life.
“God bless you all for your prayers and support.
Let’s talk about how to tell if a man is no longer interested in you. First and foremost, yikes! This one hurts a lot, and I feel bad for you if you’re in it.
Let’s starting at the very beginning. All appeared to be going according to plan!
All just felt right and he was clearly mad about you. Then everything changed… his behaviour changed for reasons you don’t understand.
Maybe it happened after a couple of dates… Maybe after a stretch of flirting in which you felt like you were on the verge of something… But so that didn’t happen.
Maybe he’s either too preoccupied with work or education, or he’s struggling with personal problems, or he just wants some space because you’ve been spending too much time together.
He Reduces Communication
One of the first signals that a guy is losing confidence is when he does this. If a guy wants to speak to you, you can usually count on him to call you. You should be concerned if a guy who constantly calls and texts you avoids doing so.
Isolation and decreased verbal communication may indicate waning interest. However, it may also indicate improvements in his personal life – either he’s really stressed or has domestic problems to contend with.
It’s still better to reach out and inquire instead of assuming he’s lost confidence.
He Doesn’t Want To Hang Out Anymore With You
If a guy likes you, he’ll want to spend time with you alone. Spending time alone with your partner is a perfect way to get to know each other better and increase your intimacy.
But it’s a negative thing if he totally avoids wanting to hang out with you one-on-one. It indicates he doesn’t feel compelled to spend time alone with you, which is a strong indication that he’s lost interest.
He Ignores You on Social Media
Many people would disagree, but when a guy will totally ignore you on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram while being really busy and posting or responding to other people’s messages, you are nothing more than a pinch of salt to him. If you make the daring move of leaving a message on his blog, you will be overlooked as well. There’s nothing more frustrating than standing in the same room with someone and seeing them behave as though you don’t exist.
He Changes His Body Language
A man who likes you does not express it verbally, however his body language can.
In social settings, he’ll face his body towards you to establish intimacy, and he’ll find excuses to touch your shoulder or arm (like when he makes you laugh).
These cues are easy to ignore, but you’ll remember them subconsciously and they’re a huge part of why you think he likes you in the first place.
You will, though, remember if his body language previously told you one thing and has since changed.
He Ignores Appointments and Gives Flimsy Reasons
A man who really loves a woman will never feel safe standing her up. Almost inevitably, he will apologise and make amends. You don’t need to be told that your guy doesn’t care for you anymore if you discover that he misses appointments and/or meet-ups and you have to be the one and call and figure out why. Genuine love for your wife is like a high that you can’t get enough of. You can’t go a day without it, no matter how hard you try. A minute spent with you means a lot to a man who really wants to be with you.
He Doesn’t Bother When You Talk About Other Guys
Maybe you catch his attention fading and attempt to provoke a response by bringing up other guys (this is never a smart idea, by the way; if you think you need to make a guy jealous to see if he cares for you, he really doesn’t)… and he doesn’t bat an eyelash. “Oh, you’ve been hanging out with Mike?” says the narrator. That’s great; he’s an amazing guy,” he says, and he doesn’t mean that sarcastically.
By their very essence, men are competitive. If you mention other guys and he has no response, not even a smidgeon of jealousy, it’s a dead giveaway that he’s no longer involved.
He Begins To Demand Time For Space
If you really mean something to your friend, being away from you is the last thing he wants to do. Men like keeping what they adore close to themselves. It’s pretty clear that you’ve been as annoying to your guy as ever when he gets up and begs for some kind of separation between you two. If you’re smart enough to decode it, a guy who wants “space” has stylishly broken up with you without your knowledge.
He Changes His Tone When Talking To You
This is a clear indication that he is no longer involved. Many men would talk to women they are interested with in a warmer, flirtatious manner than they will with others. His tone of voice changes as his emotions change, becoming less affectionate and more like his usual tone.
He can also be rude to you or say hurtful things to you. This is a strong indication that he is uninterested in you. You do not deserve to be in the company of someone who treats you badly or speaks to you in a cruel or unfriendly manner. You can end the discussion immediately if he begins making disparaging remarks about your appearance, what you do, or how you behave.
He Doesn’t Bother – You Always Call/Text First
It’s a big indication he’s involved if he still initiates messaging and calling with you.
And if you’re the one who still needs to text or call him first, it’s a sure indication he’s not.
The best way to tell if he’s interested is to equate his current behavior to his previous behavior.
Did he send you a lot of texts and phone calls in the past, then finally stop?
If this is the case, it’s a clear indication that he’s lost faith in you.
He Cuts The Time You Spend Together
He always dates you and spends time with you, but he’s still happy to call it a night.
A guy who is mad about you won’t want to go home early or schedule any activities that will only allow you to spend a short period of time together before he needs to go anywhere else.
And a man who is interested isn’t going to say no because he has to get up early in the morning when you invite him in after a fun dinner together.
There are still exceptions, as I said! You must trust your instincts. Sure, he does not want to come in one night if anything else feels right and he’s been working so hard and is tired.
WHO SHOULD I MARRY? (LADIES)
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In my few years of counseling as a Relationship Coach, this has been one of the most constant question on the lips of our dear young ladies who are prepared and well ready to start up a family.
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These ladies have soaked themselves in the place of prayers. They have spoken in diverse tongues and engaged in dry fasting but has blocked their hearts to hear what the Lord has said concerning the kind of man they should entangle themselves with.
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Like I always say, the fault is not entirely yours. No one is bad. We can’t change our BODY but we can always work effortlessly to change our mindset. Our body remains our body but our minds renews with the things you feed them on everyday.
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Some usually feel I am that rich because I soak myself mostly on YouTube learning and watching. This is not about being rich. The system has made us looked and seemed bad but it is that hungry and persistent person that can have his/her mind fed with fresh bread and new mind that wins this race.
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Bible speaking, it said, “Let the mind which you have in Christ Jesus be renewed” (Paraphrased). It means you once had a mind which may not be good for Christ-like but now, we urge you by the inscriptions of the Holy Spirit that you have a REnewed mind.
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Therefore, while choosing a life partner, there are things you need to consider, EVEN IF you are a holy ghost filled sister, once this mistake is done, it can ruin your entire generation except the Lord intervenes.
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As usual, you may choose to disagree but let brotherly love continue! ✌ Amen?
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🔥 DO NOT MARRY A MAN WHO IS NOT GOD FEARING, NOT A BORN AGAIN.
The worst mistake you can make in life as a single lady is marrying someone whose salvation is questioned. I don’t mean a pastor. Everyone cannot be a pastor. This is a costly mistake.
A man can be a born again but does not fear God.
A man may have faith in God but does not fear God.
Save your children unborn the stress of crying endlessly because the dad chases the mom with a knife at home or they are scared of the next thing to happen!
In Fearing God:
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👉 He must have reverence to God. I mean respect!
👉 He must submit to the ways of God as the final authority in all matters. Not some matters!
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🔥 HE MUST BE READY TO SUBMIT TO AN EARTHLY AUTHORITY.
Listen, anytime you see me misbehave, you have three men from God to report me to. For some reasons, I won’t mention their names here. I submit to their corrections, love, mentorship, fatherly figure examples and many more.
A man who doesn’t have an umbrella over him will cry heavily during rainy days! Don’t invite that ant into your home.
How will you know?
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👉 Any time you ask him to meet your mentor, he comes up with excuses because he has a cockroach in his pocket.
👉 He will always complain how attached you are to your mentor.
👉 He would always want to counter whatever truth your mentor said.
Note: Yes, we have some mentors who are not real. Your instinct should know.
🔥 HE MUST HAVE PASSION FOR YOU.
Note: I didn’t say love.
A man may love you but won’t have passion for you and what you do.
It takes a man with the spirit of God to truly and sincerely accept you and grow the passion of committing himself to you for growth and in all areas.
Imagine you are the first daughter and you have siblings to assist financially, a man who loves you may give you excuses but a man who is passionate about how you feel will not run away.
Passion is the adjective that qualifies the extent of love from the man to you. A man with no passion has the tendencies of been unfaithful. That is why you will still hear, “I love my wife but I cheated on her”. Yes, he loves you but is not passionate about how you feel. See the difference.
A man without passion is subjected to many options. Don’t forget this.
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🔥 NEVER MARRY A MAN WHO IS IRRESPONSIBLE. It is not about helping in finance. It is more than that.
A responsible man is that person who takes cognizance of the cost of life. He is aware about the dimensions of life and is not afraid to take it and face it!
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How do I know?
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👉 An irresponsible man will say, “they have not done it”
👉 A responsible man will say, “how can we do it?”
👉 If you cross this line of wanting to do from always complaining about how, then, you can be counted responsible.
👉 A responsible man is an initiator and not a recipient.
Ladies, you should be careful with men that always push you to the war front and takes cover all in the bid of “becoming the man in authority”
A man in authority is one who has submitted to the will and teachings of the Father and is able to lead while you follow.
He shows an example.
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Now that you know, will you still make mistake in marrying that guy that sags with G-Wagon?
Will you subject your head to that man without a father figure?
Will you submit to that man who is yet to take up the cross of his life and is asking you for the keys to your heart?
The choice is yours to make!
Love is one of the most talked about topics of all times; which requires a classy and accurate definition. The reason is so obvious because a strong attraction between two or more people is involved. The concept of love has been a topic for discussion even amongst the philosophers of old such as Aristotle and Plato.
The biblical King Solomon also had his own input as he wrote on love in the songs of Solomon. So why do so many people talk about love? Love is something unique, genuine, selfless and divine. It is a feeling that is lost in it’s own world and cannot be likened to any other feeling or emotional state ever known to man. It is a reality that is pleasant and pure to experience; knowing fully well that there is a strong bond between two people.
Generally so many people are interested in love, and hence talk about it all the time. The euphoria of falling in love or being love creates a sensation of interest and query to a lot of people.However, even though love is of great, undiluted interest to a lot of people, the true meaning of love, has been lost and people have defined love erroneously in various ways. For instance, emotions such as infatuation and obsession over someone can be mistaken for love, but its not.
Infatuation and Obsession give room for the nurturing and eventual growth of jealousy, anxiety, insecurity and in some cases, mental instability.
Factboyz.com will be looking into the top 10 best definitions of love below;
1. Love is Patient and Kind
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
.And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love” 1 Corinthians 13 verses 4-8 and 13
2. Selfless Love
“Love is when you choose to be at your best when the other person is not at their best”HuffPost
3. Love is an Act of Will
4. Love is an Untamed Force
“Love is an untamed force. When we try to control it, it destroys us. When we try to imprison it, it enslaves us. When we try to understand it, it leaves us feeling lost and confused.”Paulo Coelho in The Zahir: A Novel of Obsession
5. Love is Temporal Madness
“Love is a temporary madness, it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion, it is not the desire to mate every second minute of the day, it is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every cranny of your body. No, don’t blush, I am telling you some truths. That is just being “in love”, which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.”Louis de Bernières in a book; Corelli’s Mandolin
6. Love is Unconditional Affection
“The most spectacular, indescribable, deep euphoric feeling for someone.Love is an incredibly powerful word. When you’re in love, you always want to be together, and when you’re not, you’re thinking about being together because you need that person and without them your life is incomplete.This love is unconditional affection with no limits or conditions: completely loving someone. It’s when you trust the other with your life and when you would do anything for each other. When you love someone, you want nothing more than for them to be truly happy no matter what it takes, because that’s how much you care about them and because their needs come before your own. You hide nothing of yourself and can tell the other anything because you know they accept you just the way you are and vice versa.Love can make you do anything and sacrifice for what will be better in the end. Love is intense and passionate. Everything seems brighter, happier and more wonderful when you’re in love. If you find it, don’t let it go.”j0813
7. God is Love
“God is love”Jesus Christ
8. Love is a Deep Desire
Love is a deep desire for our loved ones growth and their blossoming and their all-around well-being.
When you love somebody, you want them to feel good. You want them to be happy. And you want to see them succeed in life.
Love really demands an in-depth understanding of their hopes, dreams, fears, their needs, and trauma.
Love is giving and sharing our gifts for the purpose of nurturing them and empowering them and helping them to create their greatest joys Will Smith
9. Love is a Complex Set of Emotions
Love is a complex set of emotions, behaviors, and beliefs associated with strong feelings of affection, protectiveness, warmth, and respect for another person. Love can also be used to apply to non-human animals, to principles, and to religious beliefs. For example, a person might say he or she loves his or her dog, loves freedom, or loves God.Good Therapy
10. Love is more of a feeling that a person feels for another person
Love is more of a feeling that a person feels for another person“Love is a variety of feelings, emotions, and attitude. For some love is more than just being interested physically in someone, it’s an emotional attachment.
Love is more of a feeling that a person feels for another person. People often confuse love and lust. Love means to be deeply committed and connected to someone or something. The basic meaning of love is to feel more than liking towards someone. It is a bond that two people share.”